Use the mindful awareness worksheet to take a moment to check-in with what you're thinking and feeling.
PLEASE DO NOT USE THE BELL TIMER IF YOU ARE DRIVING, IN CHARGE OF MACHINERY, OR IN ANY OTHER SITUATION WHERE IT COULD BE UNSAFE TO BECOME DROWSY OR FALL ASLEEP.
Mindful awareness is a way to focus on our thoughts with curiosity and without judgment, rather than engaging in a process of disputing or challenging them. The mindful awareness worksheet can help us to do that. Use it when you notice that you are feeling upset or troubled and are struggling with uncomfortable or unpleasant thoughts, in particular about events that appear to be out of your control. The mindful awareness worksheet and exercise can help to ground or re-centre you when there is a danger of getting caught up in an unhelpful struggle with difficult thoughts and feelings.
The first step is to take a moment to pause and breathe. Use the bell timer to choose a time from 1 to 5 minutes just to close your eyes, if that's appropriate, and focus on your breathing. Don't become concerned if your attention wanders; that's perfectly normal. Just return your attention gently and kindly back to the breath. When the bell sounds for a second time, open your eyes, take a moment to reorientate yourself, and complete the rest of the form.
Now observe what's going on within you and around you. Notice any physical sensations in your body and any emotions that are present. Notice what's going through your mind, as if you were listening to a radio station that is playing your thoughts out loud. Notice who or what is around you and what effect your environment is having on your level of comfort and distress.
Next, take a moment to reflect on what you have observed: what are your thoughts, feelings and sensations telling you about what's important to you, or what you might want or need right at this moment. Ask yourself what you would need to do to get your needs met and, if that's not possible, how you will cope for the time being with not having what you want or need.
Finally, think about what you can do that will be effective. How well will it help you to get you what you want or need? What effect might your actions have on other people and your relationship to them? Will your actions respect both your own rights and responsibilities and those of other people? How will your actions affect how you feel about yourself: to what extent will your behaviour leave you feeling capable and with an enhanced sense of your own integrity and self-respect?
If you would prefer to use this worksheet offline you can download a blank version for Word or a pdf by clicking on the links.